You already know how to produce. read the room, run the thing, hold everybody together—
but occasionally have no idea what your own body is trying to tell you.
Are you scattered?
Foggy?
Tight?
Flat?
Wide awake at 2:17 a.m. with absolutely nowhere to be?
Darling, there’s a vibe for that.
THE FIVE VIBES
GROUNDING
When she needs to come back to herself before she says something everybody is going to remember.
CLARITY
When her brain is buffering and she has opened the same cabinet twice like the answer might be in there this time.
SOFTENING
When her jaw is tight, her shoulders are up, and “I’m fine” has officially become a lie.
ELEVATING
When she needs her spark, her pleasure, and just enough mischief to remind everybody she is still very much in there.
SLOWING
When her body is tired but her mind is in the bed holding meetings, reviewing receipts, and revisiting something somebody said in 2019.
Each experience unfolds through three cups:
ARRIVE. REVEAL. SOOTHE.
You sip.
You notice.
You listen.
Because sometimes the body does not need another lecture.
She needs translation.
Babe, what’s the vibe?




