Unbothered & Anointed

I’m in my UNBOTHERED era.
Pampered by self-love. Protected by boundaries. Perfumed by plants. 🌹

A lot of our unhappiness comes from trying to satisfy every loud thought, every urgent feeling, every random request. Babe—that’s not leadership, that’s self-abandonment.
The key: focus on what matters deeply. The rest? Let it line up behind you.

So yes—today’s agenda is a DIY spa day at home (the richest kind of relaxation: the kind that brings you back to yourself).

Your “Do Not Disturb / Goddess At Work” essentials

Aromatherapy candle • anointing oil • bath chai • favorite drink + snack • soft music • one gang of undisturbed time

1) Morning Joy Bath Tea (soft nervous system, softer skin)

In a bowl, combine:

• 1 cup colloidal oats

• 1 cup chamomile

• a handful of petals (rose/calendula/lavender)

Optional scent (keep it gentle): mix 3–6 drops total essential oil into 1 tbsp carrier oil first (never straight in the bath).
Rose + sandalwood is divine.

2) After-bath Body Polish (glow, not grind)

Mix + store airtight:

• 1 cup sugar

• 50 ml rice bran oil (or olive/jojoba)

• a handful of tiny petals

• 5–10 drops essential oil optional

Massage like you mean it: slow, circular, devotional. Rinse. Glow. Smirk.

3) Evening Mineral Soak (quiet power)

• 2 cups Epsom salts into warm water (no extras needed—this is the minimalist luxury).
  Anoint your crown. Close your eyes. Count blessings like they’re receipts.

4) Final Ritual: “Amorous” Self-Massage + Prayer

Blend:

• 50 ml almond oil

• 50 ml olive oil

• 10–15 drops sandalwood (or less if sensitive)

• 3–5 drops a floral oil (rose/ylang ylang/lavender)

Then bless your body like it’s sacred (because it is):
“Joy is welcome here. Tension, you may exit. I am safe to soften.” ♥️🙏

Tiny safety bestie note: essential oils can irritate skin—patch test, go low and slow, and skip if pregnant, nursing, or scent-sensitive.

xoxo, gina