Posts in Holistic Wellness
Co-Regulation for the Tender Genius (and his mama)

My son’s teacher praises his ideas. His classmates roll their eyes.
And his body does this thing: Throat tight. Brain races. He shuts down. Talks less. Isolates at recess. Doom-thinks about never belonging. And here’s the part nobody says out loud: grown-ups do it too.

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Wired + Tired at 3AM: Your Body Is Doing Math Problems and Backflips

You fall asleep like a sweet angel. Then somewhere between 2–4AM, your eyes pop open like the emergency alarm went off…

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Dang Shen Chinese Chicken Herbal Soup

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, Dang Shen is often described as a gentle Qi tonic (sweet, neutral) traditionally used to support low energy patterns—fatigue, weakness, low appetite, and “I’m tired but I must keep going” energy, classically tied to Spleen + Lung Qi support.

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When the goalpost is moves again

Skullcap is my go-to for that exact moment when the deal shifts again and my nervous system decides, “Rest is a trap.” She’s the herb that helps your brain un-clench when you’re stuck in high alert—watchful, wired, bracing for the next email like it’s a jump scare.

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I’ve Been Sipping Horsetail All Season... and My Body Has Thoughts

I have been in a committed seasonal situationship with Horsetail (Equisetum arvense) and I need you to know the truth: this plant is giving “old money… but make it mineral.” Like—subtle at first. Then one day you look down at your hands and realize…

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She Built the Empire. Now She Wants Her Body to Feel Like a Sanctuary Inside It.

If your life looks luxurious but your nervous system feels like it’s auditioning for a disaster movie… this post is for you. Let’s talk about the part no one glamorizes: success without safety feels like a pretty cage. And babe, you didn’t come this far to live clenched.

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Soft Monk Era: 10 Rituals to Stay Sane When the World Is Loud

How do slow-living monks not lose their minds while the world spins on turbo mode? They structure their days like a soft ritual: meditation, work, rest, repeat. Inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh’s teachings, here’s a sassed-up version for our modern, overstimulated nervous systems:

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3 Signs It’s Dysregulation—Not Defiance

Sometimes your “defiant” child isn’t a tiny rebel CEO… she’s a fried little nervous system in a too-big world. Because in this house, we don’t call nervous systems “disrespectful.” We call them sacred, sensitive receivers learning how to live in their own skin.

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Fecund > Productive: The Garden Reframe

Medicine woman Gina kneels in the leaf litter, presses her palms into the earth, and invites everyone to pause. She doesn’t say, “How productive were you today?”
She asks: “How nourished were you today?” Because fecundity is not about constant output.
It’s about being so deeply nourished that growth can happen—when the season is right.

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